Tantra Massage Testimonials

I am still smiling! (two months after the massage)

Liz, West Cork

 

You have a magnificently beautiful touch. Words in the language are inadequate and insufficient. And yet I have to say take my word for it. Thank you.

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What was so profound to me, was that you are every bit undeniably, strongly masculine, but your tender and gentle approach totally transformed me from being nervous to completely relaxed. Then the energy could, and did, flow. Thank you for making me feel so comfortable and so safe. I felt totally honoured by your approach.

It feels as if the cells memory is converted from hurt to healed, to ecstatic.... all in one journey.

I am also so pleased to have entered this new understanding for me, that sexuality can be linked so respectfully to spirituality.

I hear what you say about the catalyst of other energies, I am on an absolute high, and feel great, which could be channelled to any area of my life, for good communication, motivation and direction. Im dealing with the new me rather well. By the way, you are a genius..........

Ann, artist, Cork

 

I lay face down and Vesco began to massage my sacrum and the base of my spine. His hands were very strong and sensitive. I began to sob as the release of grief at the loss of my romantic dream surfaced. Vesco’s hands were very good at instinctively knowing where the hurt was. The sobbing wouldn’t stop. It was a relief to have someone’s hands on me in a way that I have so often touched others in massage. It was a relief to receive. I had recently practised a soul retrieval process where the contract I had made with my missing soul essence was to receive bodywork. I think that part of my soul essence was being retrieved; it was returning. The sobbing wouldn’t stop. Once I was encouraged to let the noises come and to do so for ‘all women’, not just myself the sobs became deeper and deeper until they consumed me with a gut spasm-ing ‘orgasm’ of grief and loss; here was the missing piece! I had not felt safely held in this way before ... Possibly for the first time in my life with Vesco here was a man who was able to be with me, to witness and to hold me in a one to one intimate space without trying to fix me, make me laugh, or leave. On the contrary he was encouraging further release by continuing the massage, by handing me tissues and by not being thrown by the force of emotion. I was given total permission to feel and to express whatever needed to come out. The abandonment, deceit and betrayal of the heart connection to [my recent lover] was only the ‘axis mundi’ to a seemingly bottomless pit of sorrow. My well of loneliness and fear had been tapped into in an ancestral bloodline of sorrow that I don’t even understand or know.

As the massage continued I dropped further and further into a state of deep relaxation. (Once my wracked body had stilled and the spasms subsided, I was finally able to let go of my head which my hands had been caressing throughout, as if to prevent it from falling off, or to hide the shame of being so exposed in my vulnerability, in my drama!)

I felt strangely comatose. I have rarely, if ever, fallen into such a deep state of calm. I was unable to move or speak of the pleasure I was experiencing in the relief of healing massage. Vesco’s hands were strong and intuitive. Occasionally my masseur’s brain would kick in and I would analyse the technique, wish for a little more oil or a longer slower, deeper stroke, but I didn’t speak these thoughts; I was too deeply still to be able to give them voice. I felt my body begin to recover from the shock of the past few weeks of intense emotion. The back of a calf or knee, the arch and heel of a foot. I was beginning to feel restored. A soothing of the shock … sanity in the body again.

I came out of the whole experience feeling ‘Wow’ my body actually still belongs to [previous lover], my ‘yoni’ belongs to him….and there’s not a damn thing I can do about it whether he’s faithful to me or not.

The most significant discovery, at this point, and perhaps the root of the tantric release, is that the ability of Vesco to stay fully present with me through my distress brought about great healing. He was able to show up and be still and open, to be present in his masculine energy, through the breath and the eye contact.

Since then, now three days later and I am feeling very different. Relating to [previous partner] has become easier and softer. Something has settled in me, and I feel a lot calmer and less needy.

Anne, massage therapist, West Cork

 

I really want to thank you again for the session. It's hard to put into words the sense I had of feeling so safe and so honoured and cared for and treasured by a very present, tender, 'masculine' man... It was wonderful, and it was a connection unlike anything I've experience before. So thank you for allowing me to experience it. Part of me is worried that I've begun to forget how I felt, but I think it's just my mind worrying itself because it wants to :) I definitely still have a deeper awareness of how I feel in my body, or at least I can when I remind myself to be aware!

Fiona, Dublin

 

"One comes to this world naked, relying on instinct for survival, along the way we lose our ability to intuitively respond to these instincts, we disconnect. A treatment with Vesco facilitates a reconnection. It is an experience created within sacred space where one is enabled to connect with one's body, to heal, to feel, to let go, to move to higher ground. His energy is strong, clear and it enables Vesco to intuitively respond to the client's needs. Through breath and body-work without the need for language I had a fantastic healing experience"

Geraldine, Tipperary

 

"I have always been curious about tantra but never known anything about it. The opportunity to dip my toe in to it had arisen before but I got cold feet and decided against it. Then finally i decided to go for it and I am so glad i did. I arranged at the very last minute to have a private session with Vesco which was absolutely amazing and look forward to being able to have another one in the future. From the moment I entered the room he made me feel completely comfortable so I was able to talk openly with him. The session was the most intense but wonderful experience I have ever had and I don’t think words could properly describe it. All I can say if you are thinking about having one then don't put it off. I then attended one of Vesco's workshops the day after as I wanted to discover more. I really feel having the private session helped me open up therefore I got a lot more out of the day workshop because of it!"

Nicole, Glasgow